Are we looking for the right people to be teachers?
You may have listened to Taylor Mali explain what a teacher makes,
or seen some meme on facebook, as a kid I saw it on bumper stickers.
So, is the idea that a teacher should be altruistic the best quality to look for in a teacher?
I’m here primarily because I love kids and want them to have a chance at a better life. Often I find myself getting upset when students don’t put in their best effort. Which is often exactly the wrong response.
Middle school students love when they can confound the adults in their lives. They love attention, even negative attention. And they especially don’t want to be known as people who care about anything. That would just be uncool.
Maybe my mistake is not caring too much, maybe my mistake is not understanding that these adolescent actions that punch (yes, punch) my buttons are really the beginnings of independence. I should be happy and celebrate them. I fail in that respect at least once everyday, with my students and my own kids. Maybe I’ll do better on Monday.